damn latey for some reason or another i been having this heavy question on my heart and dont matter who i talk to or how i analyze it, it just doesnt seem clear to me ......
i recently read a quote that said " dont settle for the one you can live with search for the one you cant live without" and when i first read it i took a liking to it and what it stood for, but as i began to read more into it a verse from a luther vandross song cross my mind.... in the song it said " if you cant have the one you love, than love the one your with. damn two strong quotes with opposite meanings.
so i ask myself which quote do i live by. do i search for the love from the man of my dreams or do i love the man who stand with me in reality. Is it bad to love the one your with rather than search for the one you cant live without. Would that be considered settling ....
what if the one you cant live without is out of reach.....
what if u been searchin for mr perfect and you guys neva crossed paths
what if u was a lil too late with ur search and the man you cant live without settled for loving the one he was with
than is it ok for you to do the same.....??????
Monday, February 25, 2008
Settle Vs Search
Posted by D. McFadden at Monday, February 25, 2008
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Well, first... I am Mr. Perfect. (That's not opinion Caesar Cannon is every girls dream lol), but if you don't have the benefit of being in a relationship with a "Mr. Perfect," especially if you're young, you should not settle unless you do happen to come across your "Mr. Perfect." You should not settle because, when you do, you don't feel as good about the relationship. It's going to feel more like a extra task, rather than love. then, if you do find the one you can't live without, you won't know it, because either you've been settled too long, or you feel like you'd be just settling again.
Cannon
DEEP!
While those are great quotes...they are just that...great quotes.
You can't base your love-life based on someone's elses ideology. They haven't been in your shoes, so their way of thinking doesn't necessarily apply to you.
My two cents...Searching for Mr. Perfect is a futile exercise...he does not exist. We ALL have flaws. Search for someone you have great chemistry with and then work from there.
PS: LMAO @ Cannon being Mr. Perfect.
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